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Imibuzo eyi-8 oza kuyibuza xa ukhululwe esibhedlele

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Xa usondela esiphelweni sokuhlala esibhedlele, unokukhathalela into enye kuphela: Baza kundivumela ukuba ndihambe nini? Ngequbuliso, iyakubetha: Sele ndiza kugoduka, kwaye ndiza kwenza ntoni? U-Omar Durani, MD, ugqirha wamayeza osapho kunye Oogqirha beDayimane eDallas.





Kuthetha ukuthini ukukhutshwa esibhedlele?

Ngokwesiqhelo, xa ukhutshiwe esibhedlele, umcwangcisi wokukhutshwa okanye iqela liya kudibana nawe ukuya kulwazi oludingayo ngaphambi kokuba ugoduke. Baza kubonelela ngeseti yamaphepha okukhutshwa esibhedlele kuwe, aya kuthi adwelise zonke iinkqubo kunye nonyango olufumene ngexesha lokuhlala kwakho esibhedlele. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uphume kule minyango yesibhedlele, qiniseka ukuba uziva ukhululekile ngolwazi abakunika lona.



Ngapha koko, licebo elilungileyo ukwenza uluhlu lwemibuzo ukubuza isicwangciso sakho sokukhupha ngaphambi kokuba uphume esibhedlele. Cinga ukubhala phantsi iimpendulo ozifumanayo ukuze ube namanqaku oza kubhekisa kuwo kamva. Ungahlala ucela iqabane lakho, umntu omkhathalelayo, okanye elinye ilungu losapho ukuba likuncede ngalo msebenzi.

Kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga nokufuna ukwazi kakhulu: Njengesigulana, kubalulekile ukuba ungazibambi, utshilo uGqirha Durani.

Imibuzo esi-8 ekufuneka uyibuze xa ukhutshwa esibhedlele

Cinga ngokubandakanya le mibuzo kuluhlu lwakho:



1. Injani imeko yempilo yam?

Umcwangcisi wokukhutshwa uya kukunika isishwankathelo sonyango okanye iinkqubo ozifumeneyo, kunye nenkcazo yemeko yakho yangoku. Kodwa ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyiqonda ngokupheleleyo nantoni na, cela ingcaciso ngaphambili ukukhutshwa kwakho esibhedlele.

2. Ndidinga nini ukuphinda ndibone ugqirha?

Uninzi, ukuba alunjalo, abantu bafuna utyelelo olulandelayo kunye nogqirha kwiintsuku zokuqala okanye kwiiveki zokuqala emva kokuba bekhululwe esibhedlele. Fumanisa ukuba ngowuphi ugqirha ekufuneka umbonile kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unexesha elimiselweyo. Cela abasebenzi basesibhedlele ukuba bancedise ekwenzeni olu nyulo, bacebise UJudith R. Sands , RN, umbhali we Ukuhambahamba kwe-Hospice yasekhaya: Isikhokelo soMkhathaleli.

3. Ndifumana njani ukuya kwidinga lam?

Emva kokuba usetelwe ukuqeshwa, kufuneka ube nesicwangciso sokuya apho. Ukuba uhlala wedwa okanye unemicimbi yokuhamba, thetha neqela lakho lokukhupha malunga nezi zinto zixhalabisayo. Baya kuba nomphathi wecala okanye unontlalontle aququzelele ukuthuthwa kwakho.



4. Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyazi ngokuthatha amayeza xa ndifika ekhaya?

Umongikazi wakho okanye esinye isicwangciso sokukhupha kufuneka sikunike uluhlu oluhlaziyiweyo lwamayeza ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Inxalenye yenkqubo yoxolelwaniso lwamayeza. Kuya kufuneka icace gca ukuba yeyiphi na indlela ekufuneka uyithathile (okanye kufuneka uyeke ukuyithatha), xa uyithatha, kunye nemilinganiselo ethile yedosi. Kodwa ukuba akunjalo, okanye ukuba unemibuzo, thetha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthathe amayeza akho njengoko kumiselweyo. NjengoGynecologist kunye nogqirha U-Ann Peters , MD, uyacacisa: unokujongana neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezinokuba yingozi xa ungazi ukuba ungayithatha njani imimiselo ngokuchanekileyo. Imiyalelo ebhaliweyo inokuba luncedo kakhulu ekunciphiseni ezi mpazamo zonyango, utshilo.

5. Ndisisebenzisa njani esi sixhobo?

Ukuba uya kufuna isitulo esinamavili, ukuhambahamba, umatshini wokuphefumla xa ulele, okanye olunye uhlobo lwezixhobo zonyango ezihlala ixesha elide ekhaya, qiniseka ukubuza malunga nokuzithenga nokuzisebenzisa. Ezinye izibhedlele ziya kwenza amalungiselelo okuzisa izixhobo kuwe ngaphambi kokuba zikhululwe, uyacacisa uSands. Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, cela umongikazi okanye elinye ilungu leqela lokhathalelo ukuba likubonise indlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo.

6. Zithini iimpawu ezilumkisayo zokuba kukho into engalunganga?

Unokufika ekhaya kwaye uzibuze ukuba ingaba le nto uhlangabezana nayo iyinxalenye yesiqhelo yenkqubo yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo okanye ingunobangela wokukhathazeka. Buza uluhlu lweempawu zokulumkisa ezifanelekileyo ukubizelwa ngugqirha wakho okanye mhlawumbi undwendwele isebe likaxakeka. Emva koko uya kukwazi ukuba ulumkele ntoni. Unokucela uluhlu lweempendulo ezingalunganga kuwo nawaphi na amayeza owasebenzisayo, ucebisa u-Annamarie Bondi Stoddard, olawula iqabane Iqela le-Pegalis Law , LLC.



7. Ndingasebenza kangakanani?

Nokuba usesibhedlele ngenxa yokugula okanye uqhaqho, mhlawumbi udiniwe kwaye into yokugqibela engqondweni yakho isebenza ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa lo mbuzo unokuvela emva kokuba usekhaya iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye uqale uzive ungcono. Ke, kulungile ukubuza ngaphambi kwexesha. Usenokuzibuza, ‘Ngaba kukhuselekile kum ukuphakama ndize ndihambehamba?’, Utsho uGqirha Durani. Buza! Fumanisa ukuba kuya kulunga nini ukuba wenze izinto ezinje ngokuthatha uhambo olufutshane, uye kwivenkile yokutya, okanye usondelelene neqabane.

8. Andiqondi…

Buza ngayo nayiphi na enye into ebonakala ngathi iyabhidisa okanye ayicacanga, nokuba incinci kangakanani okanye ayibalulekanga. Uvele nje waya kwisiganeko soxinzelelo, kwaye wafumana ulwazi oluninzi. Kulungile ukuba ufuna inkcazo eyongezelelweyo okanye ingcaciso.